One of the first steps of game is always to challenge the fear of meeting and attracting women.
Quick Definition: The process of absorbing new information and interpreting it based on previous experiences or cultural “norms”.
Perceptual filters can be used as a shortcut help reduce uncertainty about new experiences. For example, we know that if we jump out of the building we will likely fall and die. This is based on secondary data and perceptual filter of movies and other people who have done the same thing.
Filters can be based on race, gender, income, and any platform of experiences. It is important to remember that although perceptual filters provide necessary shortcuts for understanding social information it can also form prejudices and biases that can impede the ability to perceive new information on its own merit.
For example, a child who grows up with a dad who verbally abuses her mother may naturally assume that all men are this way and she may never have respect for men. This filter would most likely cause her to make very poor judgments in relationships, while everything else in her life may be perfect to the rest of the world.
Or, a guy who has always been rejected by women harshly, may assume that all
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I just talked to Jesus!
He said, “What up Yeezus!”
I said, “Shit, I’m Chillin,
trying to stack these Millions!” – Kanye
Yeezus! I’m getting closer to the throne, one step at a time! I’ve trusted the process for years and it’s working, getting closer to being the Superman Nietzsche talks of, getting closer to becoming a Yeezus!
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|The End Goal
Every step along the journey has been worth it, the pain I’ve gone through has been the motivation and fuel; every drop of blood, sweat and tears has been worth it! I know because I am tasting the limitless potential that lies ahead of me. A lifestyle people dream of, but will never taste…I am sampling it…and it tastes so sweet…and so real!
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Everyone wants a better social network, but that partly comes from building better social skills. If you want people to like you bring value. Here’s how. Read More…
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Oslo… Home to some of the most incredible landscapes in the world, the birthplace of the Vikings and from my own experience I can say without a shadow of a doubt it is a country completely, utterly brimming with hot, …
Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
One of the most powerful “side effects” of mastering your girl-getting game is also achieving a level of power and mastery in other walks of life that you never thought possible.
Reminds me of a Sarge report I got from a student not too long ago about how my teachings not only got him the girl, but also saved him from getting his head caved in!
You heard it here first: Speed Seduction® is a life-saver – literally!
Join me for a moment as we explore…
How The “Boyfriend Destroyer” Pattern Got Him The Girl…
Then Sargy Persuasion Kept Him From Getting Destroyed…
By The Boyfriend!
Here’s what happened. A student of mine was on the phone with another student of mine, then next thing you know, he sees some guy come charging into his apartment (without knocking) DEMANDING to speak with his roommate. My student put the phone down and dealt with this confrontation with this intruder, who is screaming and yelling and about to start tearing the place up…
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Masculinity basically comes in two forms: creating something or destroying something. As a man, you are either building something positive (accomplishment, achievement) or fighting something negative (righting wrongs, fighting the bad guys, etc). While fighting the negative is important, it …
For the introduction to the series on being a Sexually Attractive Asian Man,
For Part 1 of “Leadership” in this series, click here.
Onto Part 2 of “Leadership”:
Now let’s be clearer and examine actual real-life examples of such elite, sexually attractive Asian men. Let’s look at history first, because by the time we reached the second decade of the 2000′s, Asia’s already mixed up with a lot of Western influences; so let’s look further in the past to find our Asian heroes. You don’t have to abandon your cultural heritage because you’re not limited by what the average Asian man is doing or has done.
In terms of mating success, which is really evolutionary success, we can look at the most sexually prolific Asian men in history and glean some insight. These included the ruling class, especially the kings and emperors. The emperors routinely had hundreds of women in their harems, sometimes so many that in their lifetime they could not mate with every one of their concubines. Wow, sounds like a great problem to have–that there are so many women in line for your bed that you haven’t the time to get to them all. Emperor Kangxi, the Manchu
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All sorts of theoretical debates open up in this wonderful world of seduction: Who is best at Daygame? Who is best at nightgame? Direct or indirect? Do looks matter?
If cold reading is chick crack, then these kind of endless debates are…what….Dick food? What is the appropriate expression?
Anyway, I find it some of the distinctions betray wooly headed thinking and a general lack of understanding, which I will attempt to address here. He said arrogantly!
So, the distinctions between daygame and nightgame and whether you can / should be “good” at both.
Now i’ll make what may a few contentious statements here:
An attractive man is an attractive man. The qualities that make you fuckworthy apply equally to both daygame and nightgame.
In my view, these qualities shine through – or are subcommunicated – and are apparent in BOTH contexts – daygame and nightgame. The caveat here is the degree to which you have internalised the
Busy busy busy busy!
I’ve been working all day trying to figure out my damn shopping cart on the new site, FINALLY think I got everything smoothed out, for the moment.
My life just went into overdrive this weekend, with a bunch of new projects in the works.
I figured I’d just send out a post here quick to show you what goes on behind the scenes, as bb.com has seemed to become my “free for all” site these days.
Damn man, the WadeAlters.com site is doing so well. I’m really excited about it.
Pretty much DAILY I’m getting guys asking me about my Lifestyle coaching stuff, really awesome…
It’s evolved into a pretty sick program, and I love working with people one on one that have almost identical life values to myself, and helping them get to where they want to be as effectively as possible.
So part of my time has been streamlining that business, finding payment processors, online schedulers, building an autoresponder, building out my social media, and I’m starting to do some guest posts on other Lifestyle websites to build more traffic.
I’m also working with my marketing director, who’s helped launch Evolutions, and we’ve decided to create a BOMB product
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BSL Insider Exclusive: Amy Oscar, author of “Sea Of Miracles” and intuitive consultant joins us on the show today.
Do you believe in miracles?
There was a time where I was a skeptic of any “woo-woo” talk regarding angels, miracles, etc. Most of us aren’t taught to be raised with believing in the unseen and operating from that place. In fact, our conditioning teaches us the exact opposite. Believe only what you can see, be attached to things, go search outside for meaning or for answers, and on…
I remember being in high school driving back from a friend’s musical event at another school one night. It was around 10:30 or 11:00 PM, and the roads on the highway were completely clear. Cruising my car down the third lane of the highway at 80 mph when out of nowhere, as I was passing an on-ramp of an exit coming onto the highway, a man driving his car comes from that far right, on-ramp lane. He cuts me off across three lanes without using his signal, driving 45 mph, and coming from my blind spot almost. I swerved into the fourth lane to my left and was just straightening out the wheels, when
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Some of friends mentioned this phrase: “If you love her, let her go. If she comes back, she’s yours.” How does such a phrase ring with you? Thanks.
Hi, Calvin. Thanks for the question. This will be fun to breakdown, analyze and discuss.
That phrase has some truth to it. Sometimes you just can’t convince another person to be with you no matter how hard you try. Acknowledging her independence from you (and your own from her for that matter) may be most prudent, whether or not she returns.
But let’s dig deeper. What kind of “love” is it here? What is the context between the man and the woman? I believe there are mainly two types of scenarios in which people use this quote.
The first scenario is an infatuation, a crush or anything that is one way entirely. There is no sex, no physical affection, and no reciprocal feelings here. The dude is running a three-ring circus of immature lust for her, either with actual gestures to her or simply in his imagination of her or both. He is crazed, but it is consoling for him to save his “love” for her (more like saving his own pride) and
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In a world filled with physically attractive women, every man has a “type” that he likes most. Some will say they like the blonde hair, blue eyes, and tan skin of California girls. Others will tell you they like exotic beauties with dark skin, dark hair, and dark eyes. And some may say there is nothing better than a redhead from Scotland. Ask men why they prefer one look over another and you find out that most can’t answer because they’ve never put any thought into it. In some cases, there may have been a blonde girl who broke his heart in grade school, so ever since he’s only dated brunettes. Or maybe, strangely enough, he tends to date girls who have the same physical attributes as his mother. Or it could be that he has spent his life looking for girls who remind him of the neighbor girl from his childhood. As for the “type” of woman I find physically attractive, I’ve spent a lot of time figuring out what that look is, and searching for the scientific reasons that fuel my desires. This is the story of lust, evolutionary psychology, and natural selection. And it just may be
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I want to share with you my favorite new little gadget for the summer, Fitbit. Both Tony Robbins and Tim Ferriss both rave about this wireless pedometer, activity and sleep tracker. Tim Ferriss mentioned it in his The 4 Hour Body book and Tony Robbins in his The Path To Permanent Weight Loss program. I decided to invest in it recently and have been loving it so far In fact, I never leave the house without it. I use it to track my daily activity, steps I’ve taken, calories burned, my sleep quality, and even weight and body measurements. You attach this little gadget onto your pants, pocket, belt or bra, and everything is automatically synced to their website when you’re nearby your computer. I recorded a Fitbit review video below that shares more about my experience with it and I even share the results I’ve experienced over a few weeks of using it on their website.
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Despite all our planning, thinking, wishing and dreaming, the reason we’re attracted to one individual is a mystery. It just happens.
I found myself with that feeling of mysterious attraction recently, in an ordinary day-to-day circumstance. The woman and I made a small business transaction, but from the moment I came close to her, that magical, unexplainable interest filled me. The animal…thing, whatever it is, lives outside of logic in a special compartment to which only a few special people have a key. It’s wild. Untameable.
Civility requires that whomever feels this way about someone keep it to themselves. Professing instant desire about a stranger falls well outside normal behaviour. Explaining an unexplainable visceral attraction to someone might even be illegal: who knows thesedays? Which means that the only course of action is to flirt a little, try to figure out if she’s feeling the same way and attempt to communicate by thought rays what’s going on inside your head.
Yeah, that never works.
Which is unnerving, because in the moment, desperation is the binding emotion. It’s essential that this thermonuclear emotion be validated somehow…and of course, it cannot, unless you
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i stopped at the mall to go to american eagle to get a new pair of jeans. the girl helping me (a cute 7) finally said, “i like your shirt.” i laughed and asked her what she likes about it and she replied that it’s so arrogant, funny, but confidant. i laughed, told her thank you the told her.
“you know that guy your friends and mom warned you about?” she nodded. i held out my hand and said, “i’m Danny.” she smiled, dropped her gaze and said, “woooow, that’s pretty good.” i asked her if there was a bf and she said there was.
“good, you’re lucky. if you didn’t i might have to put more smiles on your face.” she was a cool girl.
time to switch tactics. i told her i host a site where i teach guys how to chat up women, and offer relationship advice to women that want a male perspective. she told me she believed it and certain have a ton of confidence.
“so, if you were single, would you have given me your number?” she grinned, looked away, bit her lower lip and said, “mmmmmmmm. no. sorry.” i told it was cool but asked
A 30 year old couglet writes to Slate’s Emily Yoffe (first mistake) about the strange pull that an unemployed, alcoholic alpha male ex-fling badboy has on her romantic imagination, while a loyal and NICE dentist betaboy who’s practically begging her to marry him can’t seem to fire up her loins. Bonus track: The badboy nearly gave her herpes.
I would leave everything I have to be with [the guy who almost gave me herpes and dumped me after a weekend of multiple orifice violating that I wouldn't dream of allowing my beta dentist fiance to do to me].
Five minutes of alpha…
A regular CH reader, Zombie Shane, left a comment over at Slate (amazingly left undeleted) which sent the femborgs and manboobs ululating into righteous, backboob swinging, indignation.
1) Women are incapable of knowing what they want – if they knew what they wanted, then they’d be men.
2) What this particular woman wants is what every woman wants – the gina tingles which come from the dangerous liaisons with an “alpha” cad – not the bed-death predictability which comes from entering into the prison which is married life with a boring, dependable, politically-correct, utterly emasculated “beta” dad.
Alpha cads, not beta
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BEWARE OF THESE PICK UP ARTISTS “They will encourage you to buy something from another company or another individual for a ‘quick buck’. NOT because they believe it will help you” At least three time a week, I receive an email from a company ( or lone individual) that ‘specializes’ in either “Life Coaching’ or [...]
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http://youtu.be/Z8TTWSFfqlU Ok so, nothing fancy here. I saw this hottie in the market and did my thing. It was tough to connect because of the language barrier. Note she touches me early on (good sign) – but when she tries to get my facebook i just continue trying to get to know her. I didn’t
Source: Sasha PUA