Nobody wants AVERAGE.

The brutal reality is nobody wants anything that is average. After much debating  about “what women really want from men”, we can officially say:  No woman, wants an average guy. You don’t want an average woman either. If you live by the sword, you die by the sword. As a man, you must take responsibility and be congruent with your expectations. The dating world can be harsh, but if you’re true to yourself, it’s a wonderful place to be.  Be exceptional, and expect the same excellence from others.

We are not talking about  “average” physical characteristics or material things. We are focusing on your PERSONA or PERSONALITY. There are research papers concluding that women are attracted to personality aspects like charisma, vibe, life perspective, humor, and how a man projects his physical presence through body language.

You have to stand out from the rest-The average and ordinary guy comes in last. There is no recognition for 2nd place.—Especially when you are dealing with beautiful women. These women have so many options that you’re just another guy waiting in line with his hands in his pockets. You must make your presence memorable.

First impression is everything- you’ve heard it before, and it’s a rule in seduction theory that can’t be denied. There are no second chances. Recovering from a bad first impression is almost impossible. You might get her phone number, but if you did not impress her with your presence, she will forget about you.

 Ask Her Opinion About Something- This is probably the best and simple conversational tool when trying to have a conversation with a woman. The concept is genius and credit goes to Mystery for inventing this concept. THIS GIVES HER A CHANCE TO DO THE TALKING. Approaching a woman whom you don’t know can be intimidating. List Of Opinion Openers

Have a unique and interesting conversation: Flirting is an art. You want to have a playful mindset, yet not let a woman walk all over you. Teasing her a little, make fun of her. Try to stay away from interview type question, where she works, lives, etc. This is a stage is the Seduction Process where you must build comfort, and eventually process of sexual attraction through light minor physical contact. Use conversational routines to keep things interesting flirty.

Engage in emotional connection- We as people are walking zombies. We are operating out of script. What we say and how we respond to others are mostly auto-pilot responses. We do the same things day in, and day out. You can’t be the AVERAGE GUY. To sweep a girl off her feet, you have to instigate emotions of attraction. Read: How To Get Women Thinking Sexually Using Emotional Patterns.