What is Chemistry?
How a woman feels emotionally, is the foundation of chemistry. Women talk about it all the time. However very few men are aware of it. If the chemistry is there, then her attraction for you can lead to more. Your interactions which can be verbal, physical, and mental. These interactions can affect chemistry. It can best be described as the ATTRACTION between male and female. What you have to realize is: you can actually amplify and escalate this chemistry by being a charming, fun, and outgoing person. Your persona is your tool to attracting beautiful women. All you need to do is fine tune yourself and put forward the best you.
Humor and Pleasant Personality- When talking to a woman, it is essential that your presentation is good from the start. First impressions are everything. You want to seem like a fun, and non threatening person. Body Language is important. Always smile, and don’t intrude into her personal space when talking to her. It is often good to use an opener to start a conversation, or routine to engage in longer conversation. These tools help you convey that attractive qualities women like.
Conversational Topics should be kept light and happy. Try- not to explore into negative issues or politics. When in conversation with a woman, anything she gives you can be a fun topic of conversation. If she talks about her job, tell her she’s a “slacker” only pretending to work. Tease her, and tell her she reminds you of your little sister. Remember this is just having fun, making jokes, and teasing.
Story telling is a great way to spark interesting conversation.-We all have events in our lives that are memorable, funny, or shocking. For example, I travel frequently so I have many stories to tell. The time I got lost in Paris, or cliff jumping in Greece. The key point here is to convey your personality through your experiences in life. This really gets women interested in being a part of your adventurous life. Often times she will start story telling, which is a good sign. It shows she’s comfortable. Remember to take elements of her story, and tease, joke and have fun with the subjects.
Push Pull Concept: Making her want more
“We value that which is scarce”. This is a simple concept but one of the most powerful psychological triggers in creating chemistry. People talk about letting the girl “miss you”. You have to make yourself unavailable. You don’t want to wear out your presence. The feelings of anticipation and suspense is what drive the chemistry of attraction.
Cut off the conversation on a high note-During conversation with a woman, you want to avoid uncomfortable silences. When the conversation gets good, it’s best to tell her you have to meet friends and suggest she find you later. This may also be a good time to get her phone number. Later you may come back to re initiate the conversation.
Don’t Call too soon- Some guys are too eager to get things going, they ruin it for themselves. When you get a woman’s phone number, don’t call too soon. This only makes you look desperate. Suspense and mystery is very intriguing for women. Guys will call too soon and kill the tension that has built up. Relax and give it a few days to keep her wondering. Try not to be so predictable.
When she touches you push her away- If you really did a good job of warming up a woman in conversation and the sexual chemistry is rising, she might start to make physical contact. She may get closer to you, hold your arm or maybe even give you a hug. If she grabs your arm, say “Hands off. This isn’t free you know”. If she gives you a hug, pull away sooner than her. The idea is to get her wanting more. This should be done in a nice way without intent to be mean. The frame of mind is fun and playful.
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