Growing up as a child we learn certain things, and rules from our mother about women. One of these “things” is that women like to be complimneted. Mom tells us to be polite, smile and tell the girl that she is pretty. Simple enough right? While this may be true, it does not cause a women to be attrated to you. This may confuse you so pay close attention.
The point here is to get women to like, want, and desire you.
Yes women, like compliments, and most of the time women seek compliments. We all seek compliments, and enjoy it. BUT…….. It does NOT increase HER ATTRACTION FOR YOU.
If fact, often times when you compliment a woman, she immediately starts to lose attraction for you.
I’ve seen it, and you’ve seen it. The evidence is there, yet men think this is the way to get a woman interested in you. A guy will walk up to a beautiful woman and say, “Hey, you are the most beautiful woman, I’ve ever met.” and the girls face cringes in embarrasment, and she slowly turns away to give him the infamous could shoulder. THIS NEVER WORKS!!!
Why?
She got what she wanted from you- validation. What you have done is put her on a pedestal, and from a social perspective, your status is below hers. This is complex because, women are attracted to men who are leaders, not followers. When you compliment a woman, you are self depriciating yourself in her eyes. Women want a man to look UP to you….. not down.
Another thing about compliments: Beautiful women get compliments all the time!!! You are acting and behaving just like EVERY OTHER GUY. You don’t want to be the “average guy”. Women are looking for a man who is “different” and unique from her past experiences.
When interacting with a woman, it’s ok to give a small compliment, but don’t make it the center of conversation. This only makes her uncomfortalble. Instead, start to joke and tease, talk about other people, make curious observations about the world. But most of all, it’s important to be aware of a woman’s reactions, to guide you. Body languange in a big indicator is a woman just want you to go away, or stay and talk with her. 90% of rejections can be avoided just by observing vibe, and knowing when to eject from the situation.
What Increases Her Attraction for you?
Focus on the folloing concepts and women will like, want, and desire you
We desire that which we cannot a have- We love all love the chase. A psychological quirk of human nature perhaps. To be really good with attracting women, you must understand that there is a delicate tension between a man and a woman that needs to be maintained. You want her to know you like her, but at the same time you want to pull away as if you’re not sure yet. Mystery of Venusian arts applies this concept nicly. It’s a concept called push pull that maintains and builds sexual chemistry between a man and woman. Take a moment to understand this, and you will be a master in attracting women.
Humor is the number one characteristic women like- According to many surveys done by the most popular dating websites, women love humor. It eases the ackwardness of human conversation. It’s puts down women’s defenses, and provideds women for a more comfortalbe interaction. David De Angelo came up a concept called “Cocky & Funny”. It’s a mix of arrognce and humor. The purpose is here is to use conversation to spark attraction, and desire within women. Comedy is just the tip of the iceberg. Some of the best tricks to attract women can be found by Clicking here for David’s free dating tips and tricks
Have an interesting personality- Personality can be conveyed through your coversations with a woman. It’s important to know that what you talk about, greatly affects how a woman percieves you. Some men just don’t know how to talk to women. Often times they say the work thing. Learn how to avoiding uncomfortable silences, never run out of material, and spark interesting conversation that will lead to sexual attraction by reading the Routines Manual vol 2 by Love Systems.
Emotional connections lead to sex- Triggereing emotions is the stepping stone to having a sexual relationship with a woman. You might be having interesting conversation, she might laugh at all your jokes, but at some point, you must turn the interaction sexual, or you will be stuck in the FRIEND ZONE. Ross Jeffries is a master at emotional seduction. He incorporates psychological tactics like NLP ( neuro-linguistic programing) to trigger emotions that lead to sex. If you’re an advanced student and already understand that Seduction is a Process, then you need to Check out Speed Seduction 3.0 by Ross Jeffries.
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