List of Conversation Openers
Openers are an evolution of the Classic Pick-up Lines. These are great conversation starters. The most important thing about great openers is: IT”S NOT BORING!!! It leads you away from the typical “Where are you from?” and “What do you do?” interview type questions.
Keep in mind that beautiful women are constantly approached, especially in bars and clubs. Do you want to be the 10th guy to ask “Where are you from?” and “What do you do?”
It’s no wonder by the end of the night most girls are just fed up answering the same dumb questions. Women are looking for interesting conversation. They want to be swept off their feet and engage in a real connection.
WARNING: Do not use the openers below. They have become so popular over the years since the “The Game” became a New York Times Best Seller. Women might have heard these before so try to be original and creative.
Take your time to analyze the openers below. Understand the elements of what are good openers, and create your own. Ingenuity and creativity are essential. Keep things interesting and upbeat. Never have negative ideas. Keep it Simple, and most of all have fun.
Style’s Jealous Girlfriend Opener from the Book “The Game”
PUA: “So my buddy has this new girlfriend, they’ve been dating for a couple of months. And she discovered that he’s still friends with his ex. They’re not fooling around or anything, just friends but she wants him to cut if off. Should he?”
Now the set will start talking about this subject, often disagreeing with each other. Now the PUA will start to turn away from the set – a “body rock” – to imply that he’s leaving with his body language, then he’ll come back and continue:
PUA: “But it’s more than that. He has this old box of letters and photos from her. He keeps it in the back of his closet. But she found it and she flipped out. Do you think he should get rid of it?”
The set continues to talk about the situation.
PUA: “Actually, it’s worse than that. She doesn’t just want him to get rid of it, she wants him to burn the box.”
Other Great Openers from “The Game”
1. Is it normal for girls to snoop?
The only reason I ask is that because my buddy has been dating this girl for a while and they finally just moved in together. And she went through his stuff and found an old box of letters and pictures of his old girlfriend. He doesn’t even look at it. He just has it. Well she found them and now she wants him to burn them or throw them away. Is this a little over the top? Shouldn’t he be able to keep them?
2. Who lies more men or women?
My buddy and I have a joke bet going. He thinks that guys lie more but girls are better liars. And I think that girls lie more because they’re better liars. Solve it for us, who do you think lies more?
3. How do you guys tell if a guy is gay or not?
The only reason I ask is that we’ve gotta a buddy coming out to meet us tonight and we can’t really tell if he’s gay or not. I wouldn’t even care if he was gay, we just want to know. He hangs out with tons of girls but he never dates any of them. It’s weird. But how do you guys tell?
4. If your dating a guy and kiss someone else is that cheating?
What if you kiss another girl? Is that cheating. The only reason I ask is because my buddy over there has been dating this girl for a while and she likes to occasionally make out with other girls. My buddy doesn’t like it and says it cheating but she says it’s not cheating. So what do you guys think?
5. Omg…..did you guys see the girl fight outside?
Yea these two girls were fighting outside over this guy named George. Yea they were really really white trash. And as they were fighting one of the girls grabbed the others’ blouse and her boob popped out. But it was nasty white trash boob
6. Hey guys I’m throwing a bachelor party next weekend for my buddy and wants to get strippers. which is fine with me. But I get a call today from his fiancé and she’s like “you cannot get him strippers what so ever. So I’m torn. Shouldn’t a guy be able to get strippers before he gets married?
7. If a guy were to propose to you and give you an engagement ring. But then after you are engaged he cheats on you and you break up with him. Are you still entitled to give back the engagement ring or would you want to keep it just to spite him. The only reason I ask is that this happened to my buddies older brother and he is all pissed she kept the ring. Would you guys keep the ring?
8. Hey I have a question for you guys and it might be the most life changing question you’ve ever heard. Do you floss before or after you brush?
9. Hey do you guys know the theme song to family matters. We’re trying to remember it but we can’t figure it out.
10. Hey if you guys were dating a guy and they decided to go to overseas for a few months how long would you guys wait for a guy before you broke things off. The only reason I ask is because my buddies girlfriend went abroad to France for a semester and they decided to stay together but now she’s over there and decided a year long internship. He doesn’t know what to do? Do you think he should break it off with her? Hey maybe you guys can help me out, what’s the best way to end a relationship with a girl without hurting her feelings … cuz this right here just isn’t working for me. No my good buddy, is trying to cut things off. But he’s doing it right now by just kinda ignoring her and not answering her calls.
