The 3 Second rule:
Mystery who is a master of seduction, first came up with this crucial rule. For men the internal dialogue is the main reason fear and insecurity sets in. Visualizations of failure take over eventually rendering the man in a state of inaction. Often times opportunities are lost. When you hesitate, your appear to females as a beta male, one who does not portray confident and assertive attitude. To women this is very unattractive.
There is no Alternative: Getting near the girl is not good enough. Often times men will see a beautiful woman at a bar or club, and “hover” around her presence in hope of her initiating contact of some sort. While this may work some of the time, it does more damage to your first impression. Women are constantly watching you. They will notice you checking them out. If you wait too long, you will only seem like a creepy guy. The longer you hover around her, the lower your value becomes. By the time you muster the balls to talk to the girl, her bitch shield will be up. Women are attracted to men who have confidence and conviction in their actions. Eventually rejection is inevitable.
Don’t Think Just Approach: 3-2-1 Approach! You might not have any idea what you are going to say. It’s best to have have an “opener” to get the conversation going. However if you don’t know what you are going to say the best thing to do is JUST SAY HELLO! When you approach immediately, she will notice your assertiveness and confidence, which is very attractive characteristic. First impression is everything! By following the 3 second rule you don’t have time for thoughts of nervousness and rejection to take over. A good rule of thumb is to converse with anything she gives you. For example, she says “she’s celebrating her new job”, then talk about her new job. Be sure to spice it up with teasing and cocky/funny humor.
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